My boyfriend recently got upset with me that I don't like to cuddle with him while falling asleep. I do care about him but need my sleep. What should I do?
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A few times a week, get into bed earlier than usual, spend some time cuddling and then go to sleep... Either that, or cuddle on the couch before you go to bed... In any case, it's nice for you to try to meet his cuddling needs.
Rachel
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Love is the battery of life....
Hi,
MY inferiority complex isn't as good as YOURS
I feel the same way!I hate cuddling.I'm very claustophobic and my body temp is naturally a few degrees higher than most peoples and I get hot verrry easily.I cuddle with my bf on the couch before we go to bed,or I'll turn him on his side and cuddle up behind him.I HATE being spooned but I don't mind reversing it.Explain to him that it's not him,it's simply a quirk.Good luck and I'm glad to hear that there's another female in the world who's as anti-cuddling as me!
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In answering this question, I have to ask you one. Does he give you anything that he doesn't like to do? If so, shame on you for not sacrificing something so easy to do to make him happy! Do you have any idea how many millions of women feel like crying because they have no one to cuddle with? Seriously, suck it up and give the good man some cuddlelovin' and a few tugs as well!
"I have the same problem" Prior to our marriage, she always cuddled. Now, she doesn't. I fear this shows a distance that has developed between us. My advice is to cuddle, and if need be move apart after he falls asleep. Could save the whole relationship...