Anyone else been in the situation when you like...

i like my friends boyfriend. He's a year older than us so he's not in any of my classes but i see him in the hall and after school. the only reason i stay after school is so i can talk to him. He does track. unfortunatly so does his girlfriend, so she's there too. i stayed after everyday this week and i can't tell if he likes me. i know its terrible to think this but its still possible. i know lots of couples who like other people. on tuesday we stole Muriel's (fake name...his gf) fone and changed her other friends contact to my number. we hung out like forever and we had a lotta fun, he was really nice n stuff. guys arent usually nice to me so it was like the highlight of my day. the next day we said hi in the hall (we never do) and then after school we were in the cafeteria with everyone and we talked in stuff and had fun. yesterday he was kinda being mean. i walked over and he's like go away you're annoying...of course i stayed.

later that day i went to go to a table to sit on while everyone was talking around it and he like followed me. maybe it was just a coincidence but who knows. he tried to grab me too cuz i had one of muriels accessories or something...i think he just wanted it though (idk) and today he told me to go away again...and i didnt.

okay like him and muriel (funny name haha) never do anything, they've been going out for awhile and they haven't made out or anything....thats what..."richard" (my friends bf...the one i like) told me anyway. but now today he was all like touchy-feely with her, ive never seen them like that, was he trying to make me jealous (i wasn't, im proud of myself) or am i just lost in a fantasy land? idk i dont want to tell anyone that i like him and i have NO intentions of stealing him, that would make me a bad friend.


btw telling me to go away, if i like a guy i often tell them to go away...knowing they'll stay to piss me off...is this weirdd


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arod88
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i need help with trust, and how to know if my gf is cheating

dude that is your friends boyfriend leave it alone its plain and simple!!
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lucybrat
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I think that you should not be doing this.  This is your friends boyfriend and if you value your friendship at all you should forget about him.  There are plenty of guys out there, you should just forget about him.  Also one question, how old are you that you tell a person you like to go away?  thats just wierd.

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KristenW
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I think you answered your own question- you shouldn't be a bad friend so just forget about this guy. He seems like he's just tagging you along anyways. Find someone that has no girlfriend!!!
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eric.van1982
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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

First, I think if you care even a little bit about your friend, you'll drop it now. But more so, if you care about your reputation, you'll take my advice and leave this guy alone. Even if he is trying to make you jealous, which I personally don't feel is the situation, what are you going to do? Make him jealous back? You can try but it won't work. He's got a girlfriend and if you try to get in the way of that, you will become the school whore, and I don't think that's the kind of reputation you're looking for. I remember when I was in high school that I used to flirt with lots of girls, even when I had a steady girlfriend. It wasn't because I liked them; it was because I wanted to make sure I still had "game." Does that make sense? It's immature, but that's how I was in high school. I've grown up (a little Wink) since and don't worry about "losing my game" anymore. I'm guessing this guy is doing just what I did, trying to play the part of a guy who's got game. And I almost forgot, this thing about telling a guy you like to go away is really stupid. If you like a person, why would you tell them to go away? That doesn't make any sense! lol
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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

Hi,

     I read your story and it seems that you are just too immature and don't know how to respect your friend.  I don't think that you will like it if you were in the other girl's shoes.  You are acting like a child.  If a child wants something, she does not care if it's right or wrong to have it and does not care about anyone else as long as she gets it.

     Practice the GOLDEN RULE.  Forget about that boy, find someone who is unattached.  Take care.
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