The situation is like, i got engaged to a guy ...

 

The situation is like, i got engaged to a guy, who live abroad, while i live in the same city where my inlaws are.At the time of engagement they told my parents a year back that next year the wedding would be arranged and before that they would even built house. During that year everything went fine.Later one year after asking them alot about the house, they began construction.When we asked that the girl would not be staying here and would be going abroad with the guy, so now after a year they should arrange wedding.They were still  reluctant and then they said that inactual we wanted that my fiance and his sister should get married on the same time, thuis was the thing which they catual wanted.

As, for my parents are concerned, my inlawas oftenly come up to meet us, whereas they never invite my parents, to there house.

It has been over more then a year that my parents have gone to there place.As, for my fiance is concerned  my parents and i have just met hime twice(as he is abroad).

I am very much confused, as proposal was sent up from there side and they are behaving in such manner.

My, both parents are tensed, s i am post grad but still i could not make up any solution.Even my frinds find it a worse situation.As, everything now is dependent on to the guy since we now do not posses anything good from his family side.So, guide me!!

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This is a traditional marriage of some sort?  Or perhaps an arranged marriage? 

Are you in the USA? 

What does the fiance' think of all of this? 

It may be time to change your mind about this marriage or put your foot down and insist that you get some answers. 

You seem to be very patient.  But patience can reach an end.   

 


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There is a lot that I don't understand about your question.  If I read it correctly, you only have met your fiance twice?  Why are you waiting for this person at all?  Why would you be willing to be in limbo for so long?  It seems to me that you might think about calling off this match and to begin dating other people who you could get to know before you make a commitment to something as important as marriage.


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

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   The 1st two responses make sense.  I gave them 2 thumbs up.  You should not get married to a man you have not dated.  This is not good, you probably will regret it if this person is not good to you in the long run.  Go out with men who don't live too far away, so you will get to know them before deciding to get married.

 


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