As much as i have to say is this guy for real in my openion he is just useing you and why do you think you love him?? lets look at it this way is he trying to controll you and possably put you in the middle. But yet you say that he openley but yet you state we have not met as we stay far away why at age 25 you are able to make your own decisions but as you say today he called me up and after talking for half an hour he has taken the name of the girl ask your self why?????now my question is that is he really in love with someone else to that i say it is someone else as you make it sound go with your gut feelings with him as that will answer most of your questions. No i dont think he is just trying to make me jealous your being used as a pawn in a chess game for him to use in the middle. But be careful as you may get hurt in more than one way. But lets take time and get to know more about this guy. LOL