sabrins
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Why am I single?

I used to be a chronic dater. I was almost never single but found myself settling for guys who were not good for me. Now I have finally decided to raise my standards. I meet a lot of guys who seem interested but then find that they are only after one thing. I crave intimacy but don't want to settle. The one guy who I really see potential with is too much of a player to settle down even though I know he really likes me. What am I doing wrong?


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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


You do nothing wrong.... You are single because you still were not lucky to find the one that really suits you ( = your true love).  Don't settle for less, get what you deserve..... One day will be your day.  Wish you that this day comes very soon. 
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Femalesoldier
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I'll search, while you Cool wait.

You are single because you are developing a habit of settleing for the wrong guys.  I say this because you mentioned In the last few lines of your questions that there is one guy whom you know to have potential but he is a player, and you ask what should you do?  The player has the potential to play around on you.  I suggest you and set higher standards, and be continue to be careful when choosing a mate.  Your inner-voice is already guiding you.  Listen to it.  Do not rely on your feelings.  They seem to somtimes get you to select the wrong person.
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PamPam
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Every player gets to sit on the bench once in a while. Don't worry you'll have your chance, but meanwhile don't waste your time. When you say you raise your standards what do you mean , do you go after just better looking men ? Sometimes the best intimacy you can find is right near you and you might have over looked it. Do go saying " I am raising my standards" decide what you really want and look for it at any person you meet, your intuition will lead you.

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You are fishing in the wrong waters. Set your priorities and standards and stick to them. Don't settle for less and don't encourage the wrong ones. If you maintain those standards you will soon find Mr Right because he is also looking for someone like you.
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i want to know why I'm single too. We're in the same boat. If somone could give me legitimate answer to why I'm single..i wouldn't be single.

 

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