Gay marriage is 100% OK. I mean personally I am straight but a bunch of my guy-friends are gay and I like them better than my straight guy-friends. Love is love. Gay or straight.
Hey David Clattenburh---I am so sorry. I know how tough it is to be an open Gay American in this day and age.
Anyway-- I suggest a quick drive up to Canada to legitimize your relatinship :) hope I was of help.