I dont know what do you exactly mean by "baby steps". I tried putting my pc in my living room so that i could not search porn............ but found that when i have that intense feeling reagarding my fantacy and fetish it would ease down by some porn. Otherwise I'm only able to get away with it by making some cuts with a knife on my chest and back........ Pain somehow helps me with it. I dont know if I should be doing it but it seems the only way out for me..........