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I recently got married and my husband is leaving ...

I recently got married and my husband is leaving for the Military in less than two months. I'm a very sexual person. I need him to be there to fulfill my needs. He seems more interested in his video games than he is me. There has been times where we did not have sex for months. I just want him to pay attention to me and be more sexually active with me. I've bought the nighties and flaunted myself to him. I have tried the hard to get please him and try to get him to do anything with me and still nothing. It feels like when we do have sex hes doing it just so I will shut up. Hes never on top or does anything even remotely kinky. Its either me on top or him behind me. What can I do to spark up or relationship before he leaves?


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There seems to be very little that you can do except to have him go for counseling. Your husband has the major problem not you and it should be resolved immediately through outside help.


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If you're married to a boy who would rather play video games than pay attention to you, it's time to start thinking about finding someone who will love you the way that you deserve.


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Something is seriously wrong here. I'm getting married in 27 days, my fiance is leaving for boot camp this fall. we spend every minute that we can together. You're not at fault. He is. I'm all for making a marriage work, however something is definitely wrong. As harryvan suggested maybe counseling is necessary.


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"But a man is made for defeat. A man can be destroyed but not defeated. "

 Ernest Hemingway

Thanks for your reply's. I had a long talk with him and things are getting a lot better. Thanks!


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I will quote from the Bible, Old-Testament, This has to do with a man who takes him another wife,But it also applys to your marriage just the same. See (EXODUS, 21: 10-11) "If he marries her, ( You and your husband's Marriage), and then takes another wife, he may not reduce her (1) food or(2) clothing,(3) or fail to sleep with her as his wife. (First wife, You). If he fail in any of these "three things", then she may leave freely without payment". So says God. You may be married on paper, but God only recognizes "the three condition" that he has set forth in his word. The nice way for you to handle what is going on is to sit down and give him some reality therapy. Like He can ship up, and be a Husband, or he can ship out. If he doesn't want the marriage to work, or won't fill his marital responsibilities. There would be no sin on your part in seeking the fulfillment of those three things with an unmarried man. (EXODUS, 21:10-11). Gives you every right to find love in the arms of another "unmarried" man. Who is ready and willing to give you the love you need and have a right to.

Sorry about your sorry life,and Sorry relationship.

 Doug.


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