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You are young, Liz.  If this would be your first time, I would say wait until you are sure this is the man you are going to marry.  If you know that he isn't your soul mate, but you want to try it out, then that is up to you.  I don't recommend having sex indiscriminantly.  Make it mean something.  Your first time with a man should be special, and will be special if you both really love each other.

2 days, maybe 3 if u have doubts about him / her

Depends what you want out of the relationship. If you want to just kind of slut around and don't want anything serious then go ahead and sleep with him right away.

If you do want somthing serious don't even think of sleeping with him b/4 the third date.

And even after the third date don't rush into anything if you don't feel comfortable.

Stick to your Masturbation,

It's much, much safer at this time.

There may be no commitment on his part,

Just sex upon that young man's mind.

I have been there as has many a buck,

So be sure that you make a pretty good selection.

Or you'll  find yourself quite out of luck,

 And all that he may want' is just his erection.

some ppl set time limits on when they should have sex but i think it depends on how strong the relationship is and when you feel its the right time to have sex and you shouldnt let anyone pressure you into having sex because if they say they cant wait that long then their not for you

There is sex and there is making love.  Making love is sexy and can be lusty and gutsy if with the right mate.

When you feel it and it makes you burn it is time.  Or maybe just lust, you will know the difference.

if you want the guy to respect you, i'd wait at least four weeks.  if you just want to get off and don't care if he respects you or wants to see you again, go for it right away.  hope this helps