If sex is only sex why would a man get upset if you want to sleep with his family member or best friend it's just physical sex right?

Hi Leona,

Some guys don't like to admit that they have their feelings involved in relationships. It sounds really macho to just say that sex is sex and it doesn't mean anything to them, but as soon as they start to feel threatened, it's a whole other story!

because you just dont sleep with the guys family member or his best friend its not exceptable when you care for someone he should be the only one you want not every tom dick or harry

Leona, that you're a very angry and bitter woman has become clear from your posts. Someone has obviously done you wrong and you're not getting over it at all. Nevertheless, I'm going to try to give you and honest and sincere answer. Here's the thing. NO MATTER what any man will tell you, sex is NOT meaningless to us. Sex is the primary way men give and receive love, and feelings are always involved. It NEVER means nothing. Most men simply don't know themselces or examine themselves closely enough to realize this. Those of us who do, do not cheat on our partners.

Going for a family member or best friend gets into another entirely different psychological space. If you want to hurt someone as badly as possible, that's the way to do it. But is it worth it, really? Revenge is rarely satisfactory.

Please dont listen to bone structure! Unless a man cares for you, then sex is just sex! Im a girl and sex is just sex for me! Its so easy for them to bang you and never think about you again! Trust me I have brothers that are older, and male friends that tell me everything!  Only dumb ass females confuse sex with love! They have absolutely nothing to do with each other! Stop tryna analyse everything, it is what it is! The only reason a man gets mad when you sleep with their brothers or best friend is because now their friends can say they had you!! This does something to their high esteem. My sisters husband said it made him feel like he had been betrayed, and it made him feel ashamed! Atfer what he did to my sister, Im glad she slept with his brother, he needed to feel that way, that is exactly how my sister felt when he slept with a co-worker!  She felt better ,and so did I! ha ha!! Can you believe the brother actually thought that he and my sister were gonna start some kinda relationship after that??!!  My sister and I laughed sooo hard at him!! Can you imagine? She told him yeah right, after youslept with your brothers wife, why would I want you? You are worst than your brother!! Girl he was ready to leave his wife and all! Anyway Leona, I hope you fall deeply in love with yourself You will be better off! Stop giving men power over you! FALL TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH LEONA!!!!!!! After you do, nobody or nothing else matters!