I'm sorry, Ryan 2020 I got side tracked.  It's true, she was probably expecting more.

Maybe it's not to late to  get back in with her, if that is what you want.  Explain to her just what you have explained to us.  She probably thinks that she made a fool of herself.   If you want this lady in your life ask for another meeting.  Be ready to apologize and slow down.  If there is a connection between you, it will show up .

Just explain to her that the problem was you not her.  Be up front and honest.  No one wants to go to a Motel room with certain things in mind and leave with the feeling that you don't find her sexually desirable.

Good luck with this one.  Have her read the posts that should let her know how you feel.  Of course she will be embarrased.

Ken Reed Sr