No sex happening

Hi,
Oh no... the easiest thing is to run away.... and cheat.... When a "man" faces a problem he fights....  You have a problem.  The problem is not only a sexual problem.... I bet there is a major problem in your relations.  It looks as if you need some proffesuonal advise.
Best regards,

Cheating will just worsen your relationship. There is a problem that should be handled intelligently. Urge her to for therapy which will benefit you both.

have you tried simply asking her about the issue? Not by approaching her for sex and then asking "what's the problem?" Try a secure but non-sexual place like the kitchen or home office if you have one, at a time of day when she seems most relaxed. Make it out as if you have the problem - you are concerned about your relationship and you want to make it better and you need her advice. What can you do to make things better? From personal experience I would guess that the lack of sex is not about sex, but more about emotions. Whatever else you say DON'T tell her you've considered cheating! Some other possibilities are depression, medications, change of life, or physical problems of a feminine nature.

Hi,

     You need to have an open honest communication with your wife as to the reason why she does not want to make love with you.  Perhaps she is upset with you about something that she finds  difficult to discuss with you.  It is very difficult for a woman to be in a mood to make love when there is something bothering her.  If this discussion with her will not work, you both need to consult a marriage counselor.

     Another possible reason is any medical problem that she may have, it could be depression, pressure  and stress from her workplace in case she works outside of the home and another one is she may have lost interest in you.  Did you gain a lot of  weight?   Do you still  take personal pride in how you look?  Do you  still show her that you love and care for her? Are you still loving,romantic, generous and thoughtful towards her?

     Please explore the possible causes and go from there.  It's a shame to lose a wife so early in the marriage.

Take care and God Bless.

Could we get your wife and my husband together...... they could start a monestary.....lol.

Don't cheat!!!!  Trust me, I know where you are at right now, my husband has every excuse in the world.  The rejection and unwanted feelings you are experiencing are unbearable I'm sure, but what you will do to the trust you both have built would be more unbearable.

The first line of solving things is communication, if she can't open up to you maybe you should seek some therapy together. 

Keep up what your doing and remember that a woman loves to be romanced.  Don't romance for the purpose of just having sex, but do it so that she understands how much you care for her and desire her in that way.

Best of luck to you.!!!!!