'm 47yr old man who is going to be married this ...

'm 47yr old man who is going to be married this spring. Having been alone for several years , I've been use to my own hand(if you know what I mean)

My new wife has told me that she will be spanking me for any wrong doing, her mother would spank her father when he would come home with too much to drink, and other bad behavior.She was born in puerto rico and lived in ny for most of her teen & adult life. I am from Fl. most of my life. Anyway, she has been spanking me for just what she said , what she sees as bad behavior.

As I stated earlier, I was alone for awhile,..... and now she says that I can get a spanking on my penis in addition to a full spanking on my thighs and but if I masturbate alone. I have to tell her every day if I did or not. I have never lied to her and won't start now,

Any women ever control  when your husband has an orgasm or if he plays with him self?

is this normal of a female to demand of her husband to be?

I'm new to this domestic dominate relationship so any help or advice will be greatly appreciated, I lover her very much and want her to feel like she is queen, but need to learn about being obedient to her


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I am not sure to what extent she "spanks" you and if it is in a playful manner, however there is such a thing as domestic abuse towards men. Perhaps it is a cultural difference, but is it not degrading to you to be "punished" for your "mistakes". You should be allowed to make your own decisions and communicate with one another with words instead of physical violence. Would she be ok with you spanking her when she is bad?

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Do you consider yourself a submissive? There's plenty of information on the net about D/s if you look. If you are NOT a submissive, then she's just a crazy bitch. You might want to get matters straight in your head before jumping in. If she is a true dom, she'll know how to train you.

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