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I date a lot of men, mostly younger. I am a BBW or Full-Figured woman. I can not understand what they see. I am intelligent and independent but I let my size stop me. Men-help me understand.

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The answer is in your question. You are intelligent and independent. There is more to love and respect than just external beauty. Inner beauty cannot be hidden.

 

Best wishes in all you do. 


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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

What is bbw?


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bbw = big beautiful woman


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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

You said it yourself. Don't let you size stop you. There are many men, inlcuding myself, that love full-figured women. I'd suggest reading Be Aggressive: 8 Surefire Ways to Get a Date and 9 Steps to Approaching Someone. And learn to love yourself!


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Theres more than physical beauty involved in attraction to another person. And you mentioned that alot of your partners have been younger; an easy answer for this is a large number of guys are attracted to older woman.


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The woman I am with right now falls into this category, if indeed it is acceptable to categorize anyone! She has always been a big lady, and my affection for her is truly unconditional. There is a societal trend that causes people to lean towards the Christie Brinkley sort, or (heaven's forfend) the Calista Flockhart look!

  Our sexual relationship isn't lacking in the least. Her zeal, and mine, are born of a mutual respect, as well as our true affection for each other. Usually the people who are opposed to the pleasure that a relationship with a 'Big Girl' can hold, are the folks who, trough whatever irrational bias they may have,  haven't given the opportunity a chance !


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