Dear,
Indeed Premature ejaculation problem is really frustrating for a man and for his female partner as it hits when you both are at height of excitement and want to continue. Females feel frustrated and male feels guilty. Sexual satisfaction forms the basis of a healthy and happy married life.
Your Husband is suffering from Severe Primary Premature Ejaculation as per information you gave to me. We classify PE as severe if Latent Period of Ejaculation is below 1minute.
In severe PE state most patient go under cyclic depression. It means that even you wish to control your ejaculations you are simply not able to control over the burst of nervous discharges for involuntary ejaculations. As you more and more think about your state your PE re-enforces itself and your ejaculation time abruptly decreases with time. So more you delay more it becomes difficult to treat your PE condition. So more time you give your PE to re-enforce more time it will take for treatment. If you observe your condition from my eyes you shall see many parts of your condition viz performance anxiety, fear of sex and to even talk to girls, low morale and confidence, low body energy, depression, disinterest in marriage and in severest cases we have found even suicidal tendencies in some males. I have seen few cases in which such untreated patient when married forcibly they just ruined not only their lives but also their mates lives. I just can not elaborate it.
Most men tend to develop a negative attitude towards life and all things. This is a real phenomenon and even you are educated you are unable to overcome it. This is a Truth.
In fact, there's NO product, exercise, or technique that can stop severe premature ejaculation when used alone. NONE! Severe premature ejaculation is an extremely complex condition the causes of premature ejaculation are both physical and psychological.
But the positive hope is that this condition can completely reverse under proper guidance and medications.
As a Specialist in sexual medicine we tackle each patient condition very carefully and go for step wise approach. This helps in eradication of root cause of PE so it never returns in life and person have complete control over his ejaculatory time.
Normally mild to moderate cases gets completely cured in a month time while severe cases may take 1-2 months time for complete permanent benefits.
You have to understand that in Severe PE cases even when you know that you are suffering from PE and want to control your ejaculation by your will you just can not control it. This is the main problem which we call as "blocks" in brain. So because of these blocks you are not successful by self therapy.
There are specific medicines which clear up these blocks and forms the base of treatment of PE. We have tried and tested these medicines as completely safe medications for years in hundreds of similar cases like yours. Then for permanent benefits we advice you to learn and practice specialized techniques like Screw Tech for some time period as per your conditions so that you are able to locate your orgasmic point and are able to extend it so you can hold your ejaculation for period say 30-40minutes. I personally prefer medicines to be free from any side effects.
But for all this to happen you should be serious for treatment and must follow the instructions precisely. This is highest possible and most successful treatment regimen for PE of severe grades.
You can contact me at dr.anilkumar@hotmaill.com
Dr Anil Kumar
Sr Sex Specialist