I am married 28 years to the same person never cheated but why am I still thinking of another that I lost contact over 30 years ago
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It is likely that something is not right in your current relationship. Are you two not as intimate as you were previously? Often times in long relationships, the two people lose that fire and passion that they had in the beginning. If this is the case, I'd suggest reading http://romantic.adoringyou.com/fireburning.html as it can be very helpful in adding some spice back into the marriage. If this is not the case, and you find that you cannot pinpoint the problem in your current relationship, I'd suggest going to marriage counseling. I hope this helps.
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