I sent him a not so good text, did I just ruin things between us for good???

On looking at the text you sent, it certainly seems as though you were saying you no longer are interested in starting or maintaining a relationship with this man.

Why did you send him a message saying "I am ready to move on" and "I am talking to someone new now" if that's not true?

Whatever you do now should be done in person. Forget the stupid text messaging and grow a backbone!

If you meant it when you sent it but have changed your mind, tell him so.

Say, "I sent you a message saying I wanted to move on, but I realize I didn't mean it. I was angry and frustrated and I hit send before I thought things through. I would like to continue to get to know you and I trust we can take our relationship to the next level."

If you are lucky enough to get a second chance, then knock off the silly game playing and see what happens.

If not, learn your lesson and move on.

Hello,i think that people don't understand once you text someone something it has been sent and you can't overturn a text.At this point in your life after saying some things you should have not said you have to be a lady and face the facts.Now you are sitting back trying to put the pieces back together that you have lost.YOU have to understand that just cause you are upset people have feeling them selves.I don't know why you sent the text but you made it loud and very clear that you was done with himand you wanted to see other people.Maybe you did this to hurt him but really you played your self.Now you want to make things right.This guy at the time may have not been the man that you wanted him to be.So what is so different now?I think as a lady if you really are sorry you might want to see him in person and try to explain to him that you was very upset and you only sad those things cause you was trying to get him to man up and be a better man.Don't play your self short if you have sent him another text and he did not reply back to you is because he feels that he might not be the one for you.If i was you I would not send no more texts to him.BUt be a lady and try to invite him over and have lunch.TRY to put on your best nite gown and show him that you are really sorry.The next time you are upset don't send a text talk it out with the person and see what you can do different.Well i hope that the text has not ruined things between you and the guy that you was upset with but now wants back.

This is why you should think before you speak. If you were unsure of your feelings, you shouldn't have sent him such a message. Unfortunately you can't take your words back or turn back time. He's probably not going to contact you b/c you basically told him not to. If you want to have any chance at rectifying this situation, you need to contact him and appologize. Tell him you were confused at the time & didn't mean what you said. That's all you can do.. see what happens.

Personally, and from the men that I know, I truly believe that he would come back and try to fight for you regardless of what you told him. Just think about it, what you said really wasn't malicious, and its obvious you were upset with him. He could have easily texted you back "come on Tasha, don't do this, we can make it work." But he didn't, it was not worth the effort for him. In addition, if you were going to go back and try to explain yourself it sort of makes you look unstable and indecisive. I know my opinion differs from most people that have answered your question, but this is truly what I believe. 

If it were me, I would contact him & appologize. I would tell him I didn't mean what I said. If he really likes you, he won't hold what you said against you. If you wait for him to contact you, it might take a while & is going to drive you crazy not knowing if he's going to call.

First, grow up. Secondly, if you blew it with this guy, there'll probably be many more later. Just learn from your mistakes and don't lose your job.