Im seeking relationship help. .

Hi,
No offence, please, but you are playing an unfair game.  If you don't like your present girlfriend why do you stay with her ?  If you really want your ex g.f better leave your present g.f. and do your best to get back to your ex.  The easiest way is to ask her face-2-face (that's the best) but if you can't do it than you have 3 options: To send her a mail (snail mail or e-mail) phone her or send a person you trust to do find out for you. 
Best regards,

Ask her. However you complicated things by dating her friend.  She might consider you off limits now because it can cause a riff between her and the  friend.

You are not committed to the 2nd girl you are dating.  Be honest with her and tell her that you still love and care for the first girlfriend.  This will hurt your girlfriend now but she will get over this in time.  Hopefully the 1st girlfriend has time with you now.

Dating her best friend, wow, that didn't cause any problems between them? My advice would be like the others have said you shouldn't be with someone you really don't like, it will hurt her more if you stay with her in the end. I would tell the first girlfriend how you feel, if you both had a better connection together it is worth the chance of saying something. If you don't tell her you'll never know what could have been. Good luck.

Well, first of all, I would think she would be upset that you, broke the rule... you dated her best friend. I dont know how serious it is but, thats a problem. If you still like her, than you should explain it to her friend, and call her and tell her. I wouldnt expect to much, if she knows you dated her friend. Maybe she will be ok with it, but I doubt it. I dont know how old you all are, so the behaviour, I am just guessing at. All you can do is try. But try to put yourself in her shoes. How would you feel? Good Luck