hi im a 22yr old girl. im in a relationship wid a boy since 5 yrs..v love each other truely..v hav been together since the first yr of engineering..v made all plans to get married n my parents agreed but his parents dint..now the problem is he is suffering from psoriasis since 1 and a half yr..at starting stage doctors convinced him sayin it will b cured with PUVA there s nothing to worry...so v both were relieved but with time his disorder too increased n now i came to knw it wont leave him all his life..he got it all over his body and in winter it jus gets worse..he s very fun loving n gud to me..v gt attached so much tht v had sex 2 yrs back wen his disorder ha jus started..i got pregnant and i came to knw it in 5th month..without telling nyone at hme i gt an abortion done..it was like a mini delivery actually..i was very traumatised at tht time...was deeply in pain...he supported me but still i could nt cme out of the shock tht i actually got pregnant and aborted...he forced me saying he will nyways marry me wat wrong...v used condoms but still iy happened...all this happened 2 yrs bak..now the problem is my father who was supportive of our marriage came to knw tht he has psoriasis..we both went n consulted his doctor..he said it wont go all life and i hav to take decision to b with him or nt..my father is nt ready to get him married to me now...even my love does nt want me to marry him..he said he does nt want me to suffer along wid him..i cant see him goin through pain evryday by living wid him..so v mutually decided to part ways..now my question is if i marry someone else will i get aids as i already slept wid one guy?will my future husband knw tht i gt aborted? will i be able to conceive again normally though i had abortion 2 yrs bak...pls giv me honest reply..im very disturbed...pls dnt post my question in ur column..
