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Is there any way to practice 'safe' erotic asphyixiation with your partner?
I'm dating a girl who thoroughly enjoys this practice, but I worry about the potential short (and long) term effects. This is not your typical 'rough' sexual activity, and I'm afraid that I could accidentally hurt (or worse!) her. I also realize that this isn't a 'normal' fetish and is likely the result of abuse of some sort, so how do I broach the subject, how can I talk to her about it without making her feel like I'm interrogating or judging her. I want to be with her, but I don't want to have to choke her everytime she wants to get off.
Has anyone ever experienced this?
I think that you or a therapist should explain to her that every time she is choking, she is not getting enough oxygen to get brain, and this causes brain damage. It is also very dangerous and there is no way of knowing whether she will start breathing again after her air supply is cut off. Maybe you guys can find other fetishes that aren't so risky. I would explain to her that you don't mind doing it, but that you are worried about her health.
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This is definitely dangerous to her. If you really care about her, I really think you should tell her that you won't do it anymore. I mean, what happens if you go too far and something happens to her? How will you feel afterwards? And will there be legal repercussions against you?
Good points, thank you!
You need to accustom her to something else. She developed this habit somehow know try something else. Tell her it turns you off doing it because....... Now try something else that will arouse her. It's not easy but i am sure you will find it.
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