To tell you the truth, I'm not sure most people don't go through this ratio every day of their lives, some even a worse ratio. And I'd guess most of them don't even expect anything better. Let's face it, this is not an easy world to live in, even if you have everything going for you.
Rich people feel persecuted because they're rich, poor people want to have more money, famous people seek privacy and unknown people want their 15 minutes of fame. And these are only the most obvious examples. Take a survey among your closer friends - how many of them are really happy?
I'm not trying to bum you out, I guess 10% happiness isn't a lot, but it is something I can live with. I suppose I'd try to increase this amount.