The right attitude when first meeting a woman

You should be TOTALLY DETACHED from the “outcome” of any situation with a woman.

What that means is that no matter what she says or does, YOUR life goes on the same way.

If a woman rejects you, it is NO BIG DEAL.

If a woman goes home with you, it is also NO BIG DEAL.

Try to become the guy that doesn’t care either way.

This attitude of indifference is MAGNETICALLY attractive to women.

They can sense it the moment they start talking to a man.

But this isn’t a way you can “act” or something you can say. It has to come from inside of YOU.

Make it a point to avoid the “scarcity” way thinking at all costs.

Stay committed to your overall goal of success with women… but don’t worry about success with any ONE woman.

There will ALWAYS be another. Always.

Think positive.  Leave your inhibitions behind.  Be yourself and enjoy the moment.

be your self women like that dont be a pig though be your self

First of all it's important to remember that no 2 women are alike - every woman is looking for something else when they are on a date, there's nothing really that every women in the world would find attractive. what's the solution then?

how about this - treat the woman you are meeting as you would like to be treated - be nice and attentive, talk about yourself (but not to much) listen to what she has to say and share a little bit of yourself.

In the whole dating game it's very hard to forget that basically both people want the same thing and that this is not a war or a battle.

Anything you feel, show it, if you like her show it, if you just want to get laid, show it. Just be yourself and be honest with how you feel.

 Regards,

ramin2ca@yahoo.com

San Diego, California