By all means, go right ahead and add me. (And even if I didn't agree to have you add me, there's not a damn thing I could do to stop you. Contacts don't have to agree - or to reciprocate!)
'SNOTS' is an acronym standing for 'Social Network of Total Sillies.' It is a group of friends who met here on Yedda, found we were constantly hanging out in the same threads, and subsequently gave ourselves a name in response to being labeled a 'clique.'
We spend a lot of time being silly in one particular thread, but most of us venture out into Yedda land to answer regular questions, as well.
P.S. I really don't think she meant it as it sounded. She is a very nice (albeit stressed out) person and would never want to attack someone for no reason. Give her a pass this time - if she does it again, I'll yell at her for you (she's also one of my contacts).