I relly like this guy and he wants to get me ...

I relly like this guy and he wants to get me pregnate and leave me to take care of the baby and im only 14 what should i do


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Are u for real? Why would u want to have a baby at 14? U are only a baby yourself! Live your life and enjoy it now. You have enough time for kids when u grow up yourself. Think before u do this
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You're too young to even be thinking about kids. If he really cares for you, then he wouldn't just want to have sex and leave you with the baby! If he's not the type who's willing to stick by your side through thick and thin, then he's not the one to have a baby with. Think before you do or let anything happen!!
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22Carlos
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Don't do it!! Stop seeing the guy. If hes older than you tell your parents. My god you have so much to look forward too. Most of all its against the law your a minor. Please don't see him again he just wants to ruin your life not his he's a bum.
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What ever you do don't let this piece of garbage get you pregnant. First, why would you want be left alone to take care of a baby by yourself? You're an underage minor and by law you shouldn't even be having sex. It's not fair to you or your parents either. Tell that stupid SON OF A BITCH to tie a knot in it and go hump his self. He is either retarded or thinks you are. Either way you should get rid of him. Please don't fall for whatever bull this guy is dishing out.
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angelis
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Innocentthe best gift in life is life itself.

If u r curious what it would b like havin a baby ask someone u know that has 1 and see if u could babysit or if u dont know ne 1 since u are still so young and u cant legally work ask a local daycare if u could volunteer to gain work experience so u can see first hand exactly how hard it really is taking care of a baby. Better yet go to a church and ask to volunteer yours services there they will be more willing to except you and  

Please remember that babies are cute but not always they take alot of responsibility and that means when your 16 and u wanna go 2 a school dance u cant take ur baby, when ur 18 and all ur friends r goin on a road trip 4 the summer again a baby would only impose on the fun and when ur 21 and las vegas is finally an option or a night out on the town remember that its illegal to take ur child w/ you sure u might find a sitter 4 the night but what about the next morning or better yet the next time u wanna go out but cant find a sitter think about this you have ur whole life ahead of u and baby will not make u grow closer to ur boy friend but the stress of a sick, screaming baby in the middle of the night will push u away from eachother. I promise u having a baby is the most wonderful thing u could experience but only when u r completly ready to provide a stable enviroment for both of you(which i might add is alot of work to achieve a stable enviroment) Also girls think they need a baby to have someone love them but u have to give way more love then u will recieve because you have to give up your entire life to live for that baby anything and everything u want to do, have,or be will have to put on hold if u even get what is u once wanted.
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pierceofamboy
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Be Kind to Yourself and To Others

forget that--move on--be a kid--go to school--go to college-get a great job that you love--travel--figure out who you are first--the world today is so complexed-if the guy wants a baby to take care of--let him adopt all those unwanted children that we have in this world--don't compromise yourself for his stupor reasons--be good to yourself-believe me when I say this--cause we were all young once--this guy is not worth it--as I see it he has no "respect" for you or for your parents--this guy is trouble--you are young-be young--get a puppy:)
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