I heard this song by Trace atkins.it's called ''your gonna miss this''.when I hear that song it makes me think of me when I was younger,I wasn't quite as young as you.14 is such a young age.and obviously you already know what his intentions are,screw him, finish school,hang out with your friends and be you,honey you don't need no man.You only get one life darling.you have all your life to have a great relationship with someone in the future.at least if you wait,an awesome man will notice you one day,he will cherish you for the kind of person you are,not what you can put out.they will love you truly for you.it is not easy being the only parent to take care of 2 children,its a long bumpy dirt road.but it's their life I have to make sure is going to be alright,think about it before you jump into.live life to the fullest.