I relly like this guy and he wants to get me ...

I relly like this guy and he wants to get me pregnate and leave me to take care of the baby and im only 14 what should i do

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I am sure he makes you feel good and grownup but remember you are still underage for what he wants and you can both get into trouble and YOU especially. Go back to being young and enjoy this age. You have plenty of time before considering developing a serious relationship. Drop him and go back to your girl friends and enjoy good times together like most girls your age.


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Fool me once,

shame on you!!

Fool me twice,shame on me!

ok,wait sweetheart and DO NOT rush into anything!if this guy really liked you,he would want to take care of the baby and be it's father!he is too immature for a baby and you are too young to have one!why?cause you have your whole future in front of you,to have babies!first,get an education,it isn't fun having a baby and not having money to support it!a baby is a lifetime commitment,what is going to happen when this "guy"leaves you to have fun with other girls?you know what?i'll tell you,you'll be stuck all day inside without having any life or fun and he will be out having the time of his life!now start using your brain and not your heart!you can like this guy all you want,but DO NOT have a baby,take precautions and ask yourself....do i deserve this kind of treatment?don't i deserve a MAN who will stay by my side and love me and love my child?if he isn't responsible,then YOU have to be!it's your life and YOUR body!don't let ANYBODY take advantage of that!!


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You need to leave him ok a baby should be in your near future im 19 and i have a son (who I love with all my heart) but im a single mom and its tough and you have so much ahead of you trust me there will be other fish in the sea your young you need to live before you have responsibility's


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i say you tell him no. i mean you are only 14 you have a lot of time to get pregnant. and if he wants to leave you after the baby comes and just take care of it and not you, then its definately not worth it. If you are asking this question then i dont think you ready to have a child.


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Good day, !  Tell him, if he cares for you, he will have to wait for children until you are both out of college.  If not, there is a song form an old broadway play it goes, I'M GOING TO WASH THAT MAN OUT OF Y HAIR AND SEND HIM ON HIS WAY.  For many teenagers 14 is way to young to have sex, for others who are mature enough 14 is OK.   Part of being mature is to understand that having a child at 14 means, you will ruin your life.  You will have no chance to finish school and more than likely your child will not finish school either.

 

 


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best thing to do is dump him and wait to have sex with anyone else.


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