Joel49,
I consider myself a Christian, so I guess that makes me arrogant. Big deal...my friends are mostly arrogant Christians too! I will listen to the others to get a different perspective so I can understand their sadness and pain. I will walk in their shoes for a time, but still I will not follow them. I will follow God first... and that is what works for me in this life as I know it.
I'm always finding lost souls or rather, they seem to find me. As arrogant as I am, they cannot get enough of my time. Why is that? I do not apologize for trying to help them. It is through God that I have been given this light and I will let it shine and shine brightly until the end! 
Blessings,
~ nmpb ~