If you have sex on the first night you met a ...

Yes it could but it probably won't just because now sex has clouded the situation.  You'll be forunate if he even calls you back.  Let me know.

well... what's a serious relationship... one that has you walking between opinions?... what is he going to think of me and all that? that sounds more like a serious prison... 

I see no point in postponing something that you want just because someone may have an opinion about it. I strongly reccomend being your natural self, that may not get you all the people in the world, but it will keep around you those that love you as you are. Be it Passionate, spontanious, sexy or anything else.

If love is here to stay, for as long it may, be it one night or 20 years, celebrate it.

Yes, but knowing more about what led up to the sex may help determine probability..

If you met, for example, at a dance club a little drunk with no real conversation but pure physical attraction you are at a higher risk of not developing into something.

 Met in the same class, had a long deep conversation where you really clicked, while sitting on the couch watching your favorite show (which is also theirs) one thing leads to another.. seems like this may be more promising.

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I think that it could turn into something serious, but you have to start over in a way.  Just having sex with someone makes things sort of simple.  You are with one another because it's fun, because it feels good.  But, if you want to take a step back and create a relationship, this obviously has to be something that both you and your partner want.  Also, it can't always be about the sex.  Dates, spending time talking, all the things that make a relationship real, need to happen.  Becoming friends is essential... you can't find a friend from taking off your clothes.  So, maybe the dynamics need to change some, but everything is possible

Why not, it worked for me.  I married the man four years later, of course the down side is that we divorced four years after that.  You never said for ver you just said it had to be serious.....lol.  The hard part for my ex and me was that while we had a sexual relationship there was a lot of obstacles to overcome, just because you have the physical stuff down doesn't mean everything else will just simply follow.  It is not impossible just expect the normal hiccups from time to time.  Also, make sure it's what you both want, you or he can really get hurt if the other is thinking there is no strings attatched. 

I doubt it!  Men like you better if they have to fight for you.  Take it from someone who learned the hard way.

i think that as you get older ie: over 30 it shouldn't matter what you do or who you do it with. at this age you are both consenting adults and you can do whatever you want. I agree that it is something that clouds the situation but then again you live once do what you want and if it was meant to be it was meant to be