Well, I was reading on the responses to BmB's problem about the cheating girlfriend and read yours. I felt bad, because you sounded so angry and I just wanted to say how sorry I was about your ex. No one deserves to be cheated on. My ex hubby cheated on me as well and I didn't find out until 1 year after our divorce. Even after I had moved on, my heart was broken and I felt so embarrased, betrayed and litteraly sick to my stomache. I left him because he was lazy and expected me to work 40 + hours a week, clean, cook and everything else as well. What he didn't know is when I said hey I fully believe in a equal partnership, not an I give give give and he can just take it all and I sure meant that. So as far as I knew besides all that we were pretty damn happy. So any way if you ever just want to vent and let it all go my email address is ashms84.nm@gmail.com feel free to drop a line anytime lol.