How can you tell if your girlfriend is cheating on ...

First, ask yourself if your suspicions are based on anything that's changed with YOU.  If you're sure that you are being 100% the best partner you can be and don't feel she's reciprocating, consider what that means for your relationship.   You can talk about what is or isn't working out without accusing her of anything.  Maybe it's something completely off your radar.  If she can't have a heart to heart with you about the relationship, perhaps she isn't ready for the big time, so to speak, and you SHOULD re-evaluate things.  And maybe she'll tell you if she is seeing someone else if you can be the honest person you want HER to be.  But if she doesn't, and you just can't trust her, perhaps there's someone you can talk to about it.  Unless she's crazy and has a history of lying or something, there shouldn't be any reason why you wouldn't trust her, right? 

Hope that helps!

I have no idea. I did observe that she harped on me about not getting a divorce(been separated three years;haven't seen her). She got caught by a guy simply telling me. She denied it. He had a witness. I did notice that she always complained that this guy never stopped calling, and leaving gifts at her door. Complained like it was a real problem. After she cheated, she said she only stopped to talk, I got her to get a warrant on this endless calls, which she did. Well, last week I discovered she had spoke on her cell phone with this guy for a half hour...court is in two weeks. She denied it. I didn't even say I checked her cellphone. Now she is talking about a new guy moving back in our building, saying she wished he wouldn't move on her floor, he's a terrible flirt, etc. I had suspected them when he lived here. Frankly this is a learning experience, and it hurts...bad. I really loved her. All I can do is move out of the building and state. In my head I'd like to take her to the roof of the building and throw her off...and I follow. But that's just fantasy. Being honest, I hope some not so wimpy fellow in the future cuts her to pieces and lets her live, scarred. Oh well, such is internal anger, just wishful immature thinking. But it hurts bad, and I feel betrayed, stupid, and strangely inadequate. I know i have to get over the anger because all I'll do is say something stupid in public, lose the pr battle, and that's it. I know the best revenge is simply letting it go, getting over it. I know it, but some part wants revenge...which is impossible. Nothing can change it. Nothing. I have never felt such pain and betrayal. Never. Yet I'll get over it. No other choice. Damn if I'll jump off a building. Or throw one. But man it feels good to think about it.

Well You Could Try These....My Not Help U But Atleast I Tryed...

First thing u could do is  look in her eyes and ask her "do u love me?" on the way she ansters you will probley no if shes lying or not...(worked for my m8 :P)

The second thing i no is that she will allways be out or needing to see her friends more offen... or maybe she would like never look in to your eyes or always look away from u and never talk about her day and stuff..

well i hope this help and if your gf is really cheating on u the omfg!!! lol well good luck

* changes in schedules

* unavailable when usually available

* keeping another cell phone   

I know this sounds strange, but buy a notebook (keep it hidden, at work) and write down everything you think is "off". Write down what you observe the same day or next day, don't wait. At some point you may need it as a reference.  

I hate to be snoop but you should:

1. Go through her email (all accounts)

2. Check her incoming and outgoing phone calls and try to recognize the numbers

3. Check any text messages on her phone

4. Check all IM's

5. Ask where she is going out that night and drive to parking lot to see if her car is there.

6. Check her mileage odometer when she goes out.

7. Test her with "what would you do if you found out I was cheating on you?" Gauge her reaction. If it is non-chalant then red flag.

Well sometimes u can tell if her daily thing she does changes if  she goes off  on u 4 no reason at all . If sexly thing changes if u care about dont let her now and one day say u have to do something importan  and  see what she does that day but if dont let her now u r witchin her 

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you have to look at the way they treat you and how there mood is. like if there telling you i love you and all that mushy love stuff.just take the time to be with her and see the way she acts has changed. and if she like says "i was out with some friends", find out what friends and all that. trust me,my bfs have done this to me and they are so easy to find out if they are or not. trust me,im a girl.im maybe 12 but still.

-erika

well my friend sound like you have serious suspicions. My advice to you is be smart! You've been with this person for a while so you must know alot about  her. Let your knowledge guide you. Is she acting differently lately? if she is- In what way? does she seem less interested in you, being alone with you,lovemaking etc. Is she going out with friends more,does the friends she likes liming with include an ex boyfriend,or a guy u suspect likes her or she likes? Don't jump to assumptions though but be observant. Or if you really just need to know then be honest with yourself and just ASK!! Find a non accusatory way of asking though: something like - I notice some changes in our relationship lately, is something wrong, are u unhappy with me? hope you find the truth,whatever it may be. Goodluck my friend.