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How can you tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you? I don't want to hire a detective or anything like that. We are together for five years now. I am having suspections lately but I am not sure, before I come out with accusations I want to be 100 % sure.


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Ask her. In a casual conversation, ask her if she feels that the two of you are in a commited relationship. If she wants that defined, be prepared to tell her exactly what it means to you. Then ask her again! If she bulks, she is either unsure or cheating. If she wants to know why you asked, well let her know what you have been feeling.

Posted 2007-10-08T09:55:07Z
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Go by your gut feeling.Most of the time you are right.If you have to ask that question,more than likely things started changing with her. (examples)mood swings,appearance,withdrawel,everything thing you say and do bothers her ,patterns change

Posted 2007-10-09T02:03:11Z
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Well, in my opinion, i wouldnt jump to conclusions just yet. My boyfriend thinks i cheat on him all the time, and NEVER once have I. I have a busy schedule and a lot on my mind. and maybe your girlfriend does too. so if anything, i would do what you said, dont act unless you know 100% that she is, unless its a gut feeling, because sorry to say but go with your gut instict its usely right.

Posted 2007-10-09T22:53:01Z
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you can tell if your girlfriend is cheating you by seeing if she is as into your relationship as you are. if she is always fighting with you or doing things to make you mad maybe she wants a excuse for you to break up with her so she wont have to break up with you even though it has been five years i think it would be best if you just talk about the situation that your in with her and i think she will understand.

Posted 2007-10-12T01:56:20Z
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I suggest asking her straight forward, if she gets all defensive and angry or start blaming you for not being there.  Then you know!!!!!

Sorry for that, better know now than later.  If she's not she would be upset a bit but nothing major.

Posted 2007-10-12T09:14:56Z
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Videojug.com is a website which has a whole section devoted to infedility issues.

It contains free videos of experts giving helpful advice to the general public.

 

This particular video might benefit you so take a look 

http://www.videojug.com/interview/infidelity-detection

 It just lists ways of seeing if you are being cheated on - or if you are just being paranoid.  I hope it helps!

Posted 2007-10-16T15:08:58Z
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I suggest to talk to her. Maybe it isn't true and she is worried about something else that affects her behavior? Maybe she has her own troubles?

Good luck! 

Posted 2007-10-19T11:12:30Z
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It's very easy.....

If she does not answer her calls while she's with you - 'cause she has to keep silent.  Or all of a sudden, if she does answer, she gets off very quickly (if it's the guy).

Posted 2007-10-22T10:11:09Z
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