There's usually one of a couple reasons:
1 . We're not ready for that kind of commitment
2. We self-sabotage because we subconsciously feel we don't deserve it
3. We're subconsciously afraid of being hurt, and need to cut ourselves off before we can be hurt.
4. Some people like a challenge, and this situation is not challenging anymore
I've seen it happen toooo many times, and have been on both the giving and receiving end. When I was the receiver of such devotion, I wasn't ready and felt smothered.
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