trust me, everybody have to go through this situation. its mean same here i just broke up with my girlfriend after 3 years living 2gether. searching for reason . . . will be never end. just let it passed. be positive. occupy yourself with family and friends. do not jumb into a new relationship right away.
my story was not hurting at all because we were talking about this and then made decision to be friends. sometime it will better for both but still i am feel sad and so down right now.
asian K