My boyfriend just broke up with me and we had been ...

I know I probably should move on and forget about my ex. I know ur advice is probably the logical thing to do but I just don't think that it is the best thing for me to do we have a really good thing going for us and we still love each other and want to get married in the future, have kids and a house of our own. he has told me that when everything is all sorted out and we both are ready to give the relationship a second chance we will not sure how long it will take but am willing to wait for him cause I know we both are meant for each other.

well thank u for the advice I will think about what u have said. me and my ex have decided to be close friends for right now and we still talk a lot and plan on still seeing each other. we are still going to help each other as much as possible and be there for each other. we still tell each other everything cause we are still close as ever. he just wants to wait a while to see how things go and let things cool down. he still wants to marry me and have kids with me, even get our own place when the time is right. I will still go on with my life but with him still a part of it as a friend for now. after things have cooled down and gotten back to as normal as possible we will start over. with the job he has he is on a trial period type thing where he is full time for 90 days to see if he is a good worker and after the 90 days he is still at the job he goes to part time & will work 3 days a week instead of 5 days & when he starts the part time he wants to start college and go for 3 days a week so he isn't so over working himself with college work and homework. so once he starts college I will probably help him to study for tests and things for that and with anything else. we are doing just fine now cause we have talked about all that has happened and have accepted being really close friends for the time being but will still live our lives as before except I will have a job and my license where I didn't when we were BF/GF. so I will be able to keep busy most of the day. and will feel more independent and not rely on him to come to my house to hang out or to pick me up to go somewhere or have my parents take me places. I will be able to go out by myself more and we will be able to meet places to hang out like the movies or skating things like that and will be able to take turns driving places and not have him drive everywhere. we are still going to be close as ever because we have such an emotional tie or however that is said between us because we have had sex multiple times over the course of a year and a half that is how involved and in love we were with each other. we still have that tie between us but as really close friends and it is a friendship probably not a lot of ppl would understand. we both know that we are meant to be together but are taking it one day at a time for now and with time we will get back together.

why should I leave him alone if I want to help him and he wants my help? and why should I stop seeing him for? we can still be friends for now until he has had enough time to sort everything out he has all the space he needs. and what do u mean I am having a very selfish emotion for wanting him back!! I love him! and he loves me back for who I am but he just needs a little time to sort out things. and don't tell me that I am being selfish I know for a fact that he wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him and that we both don't want to hurt the other. I have left him to do what he needs to do but we have talked about what has happened and have given some advice to him. I don't know why u think I should not see him and to leave him alone it's not a big deal to help him if he wants the help.  I have already seen him since we broke up and are going to see each other again. I know there is a chance of more pain if we keep seeing each other but in my case it has actually helped the pain go away and yes every encounter is like a reunion because we get to see each other and know that we still have something going on even though we are not together. before I had lots of pain because I know I wanted him back soo much but I now realize that always thinking about it won't actually help bring him back to me. I know I love him because I know I can help him and give him advice if he really wants it and still be able to give him space. before I had thought that it was somehow my fault that we broke up but it was kind of my fault for not getting my license and a job sooner and also because he had things going on with his family that he needed to sort out mostly. we have become friends and closer to each other because we love each other and it doesn't hurt anymore like it did before. he even said when we first met after the break up that the net day we would be officialy back together but i asked him if he was sure he wanted to get back together so soon and he thought about it a couple mins. and he said he would need a little more time before we got back together but wouldn't be too much longer. so please  if ur gonna  give advice  know what is really going on, know the whole story if they r willing to tell it and give advice accordingly. but thanks for the advice anyway. I will keep it in mind.

I have found the answer I needed with the advice given here and me and my ex are doing great as friends and still have a chance of getting back together in the future