ohyesitsme09
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What do i do?

My ex gf out of the middle of nowhere broke up with me... and now... even though she broke up with me, its like she still want the bennifits of being in a relationship... without actually being IN a relationship... she is always hanging all over me in school... and calls me every night... but the thing is... i dont mind it... i actually enjoy it... i think i still WANT a relationship... but everytime i try to talk to her about how i feel about it, or the break up or anything, she always gives me the same answer... that she is just confused and doesnt know what she wants to do with her life... can somone give me advice? i REALLY need it


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Bankrbabs
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Your girlfriend wants her cake and eat it too.....She likes security of having you...And also can do some shopping.......Best of both worlds......
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Well being that you are female and only 17, I am guessing that she is the same age. It is possible that she is dealing with her sexual identity and is confused about whether or not she is gay, straight or bi.

 

If you really love her, give her space and let her make the decision on what she really wants.

 

Good luck and best wishes. 
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brosen
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You are too young to allow yourself to be tied down in a one-sided relationship. Look for someone else who does not hang on you and also go out with the guys.

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xXParamoreXx[RIOT!]
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ok i know people who are/were gay/bi and went through the same thing. try someone new!
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c4thb
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I would recommend that you ask her to stop calling / hanging out with you until she has cleared her head and decided what she wants.
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Glyttch
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Sounds like you need to set some boundaries.  If she wants to hang all over you, talk all night, and act like she's your gf then she needs to be your gf...if she doesnt want to be with you she needs to stop acting like you're together.
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