OK...i am in need of advice, i am as this one guy ...

OK...i am in need of advice, i am as this one guy would say "talking" to this guy, and HE wants us to exclusive sexually,but not willing to make it official between us b/c he says i am still involve with my ex,problem is i don't feel like talking to someone states that we are a couple..i am still involve with my ex sexually, the guy i am "talking to is upset...i don't understand what he wants from me..he says i am not trustworty...but ....question is am i wrong for  not taking the "talking" thing serious or am i right in not seeing it as "serious"

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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
You are absolutely right not taking the talking as serious.....  Bla-Bla means nothing if there are no actions to back it...... "Actions speak louder than words".... I think they speak MUCH louder than words.  Ignor what he talks but let him know (understand) that when and if he be more serious (not just words) you'll reconsider your attitude. 
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And how are you feeling today?

There's not a right and wrong to this situation. What I do think you need to do is decide what you want in your life first. Do you want to continue having a sexual relationship with your ex-boyfriend or would you like to move on and find something more substantial? If you're interested in moving on with your life, you need to end things once and for all with your ex-boyfriend.
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thank you ...he made me think i was crazy or something.I don't beleive in "talking"these days...it's been 4 months, and i know no more about him now than when we first started "talking"
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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
That means that your relation didn't develope well.  I believe you fell in love and you wish it would flourish but that didn't happend and will probably not happend either......  I have a hunch that he is hiding some problem from you.... There is something strange in his behavour..... Painfull as it be I would suggest that you move on.... This relation will, most probably, bring you to a deadend. 
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Question ,  you are still sleeping with your X boyfriend , and WHY are you doing this ?????????????????
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well I got rid of the "talking" guy. He got on my nerves always asking for sex. I wasn't into him in the beginning. It was something about him that I didn't like...but I could not figure out what it was."Still can't". But I decided to work it out with my ex.the other gut can try that "talking" thing on someone else.
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