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Ok so i started sort of dating this guy a couple ...

Ok so i started sort of dating this guy a couple of weeks ago... we went from talking on the phone everyday and seeing eachother two or three times a week to now... he wont return my calls or anything... did i do something wrong? we havent even kissed yet let alone had sex so.... can someone tell me?

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Sometimes the best thing to do is ask what is going on. It saves you a lot of unnecessary reflection and contemplation. And if turns out to be not the answer you were looking for, you can quickly just get over it and move on with your life. Good luck!

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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
No offence, please, but it seems that he lost interest..... Either he found a new girlfriend or decided that your relations do not develope as he expected.  Yes, if you really want to know ask him.... but I strongly believe that actions speak louder than words, if that's what he wants - that what he'll get.... move on and find someone that deserves you....
Best regards,


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Okay first off, stuff stressing yourself over this. It has only been a few weeks out of your life so the best thing to do is pick up and move on.  If he was truly interested he will get back in touch with you.  Do not let this get you down and do not for one second blame yourself for any of it.  Since he is not returning your phone calls then you can't ask him to tell you the truth and if he has found someone new then it is better for you to move on now than drowned in the sorrow of what could have been.  There are so many missed opportunities while mourning that "what might have been".  Don't let those opportunities pass you by, don't miss out on something good b/c you are stuck on someone who for a few weeks made you feel special.  You definately deserve more than that.  :)


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Since you are asking this question, I assume you must have been pretty interested in this individual.  The fact that he has not returned your calls, shows not only that perhaps he is no longer interested, but that he is not man enough to let you know that he is no longer interested, if that is in fact the case.  You have only known him a couple of weeks, so do not let those few weeks cause you to be down on yourself, or feel that it was something you did.  He is probably the one with the problem.  I would suggest you not to call him anymore and go on as if he never existed.  Do not waste yur time even wondering  what happened.  Afterall would you want to be in a relationship with someone who cannot communicate their feelings.  Life is too short to worry about other people issued, and it is clear that he has an issue.  Their are billions of men out there and to let just one have you second guessing yourself is not worth it.  I do not know you, but if you are the type of person to fall in love quickly, I suggest you try to control that emotion and view your dates as casual dates until a commitment has been made.  That way your heart is not invested when they do not call and you can easily move on.


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From a guy point of view,,, too much too fast, scared him off, if everything else is normal, you are a normal person, etc.

 


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i dont think your doing anything wrong. Just try going to his house or even talk to him about it

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