My boyfriend criticizes me the whole time. he ...

Hi,

   Your boyfriend is trying to tell you in a kidding way to change the way you dress, the way you fix your hair etc.  Ask him some suggestions to improve these things he criticizes you about.  That is if you really want to keep him.

   On the other hand, do you think that he should take you as you are?  This is your personality and he already knew this before.  If you insist that he should take you as you are, then this man seems not the right man for you because he's trying to mold you into a different person.

   The decision is yours.  If you can tolerate his criticisms about how you look, then stay with him, if not, then find someone who will value you as you are.

dude you do the same!! don't let him tell you shit!! if he -0doesn't like you for what you are why are you with him in the 1st place. don't listen to doggy breeder she is on crack! hahahaha jk !~!!!!!!

The question is : Why r u still with him??? What he is trying to do is put you down in a "funny way". Don't let him do that. I bet you are a beautiful girl. I have three beautiful girls at home and would never let a frikin guy talk to them like that. Get rid of him!!!!

Ok what i would do is be like "When you criticize me, it really hurts even if you just say 'just kidding' at the end of it. I obviously know you arent kidding because you do it all the time and as that qoute goes 'theres always truth in a joke' so if you cant accept me for who i am i want nothing to do with you, your making me feel like crap and your my boyfriend, you should want to make me happy."

Girl you really HAVE to be honest with him or this will not get better and you will just keep getting beat down, walked all over, and getting a lower self esteem. Us girls need to be cherished and loved! its what we were made for, its a built in thing. Get out of this asap if he doesnt 1. Admit it 2. give a reason for why hes dating you but yet has so many probs with you 3. Sincerely apoligize and proves it too. Dont settle!

Your boyfriend sounds very insecure!  It's possible that he's putting you down, because it's easier than working towards bettering himself!  I don't know how long you've been with him, but if it's really bothering you, please get out of the relationship!  It's not worth it!  There are soooooo many other guys out there that will treat you with kindness and respect!  Don't waste another minute of your time!  Life is way too short to spend time with someone who makes you feel like crap about yourself, when there's really nothing wrong with you in the first place!  Jen