How would you know if your man is messing with the ...

put yourself  in her eyesite with him and her around.keep in mind how he acts when you are alone then see how he acts when your neighbor is around. he will treat you like he normally does. or he will try to keep his distance from you in front of her.watch out for subtle things like quicker kisses in front of your neighbor,he will try not to let her see you and him together . try to embrace him in her presence and see how he reacts to him seing you embrace if he seems distant, ther is your proof. good luck!

You know. Go with your gut. They are both at fault and you should

be around when it is not expected. It is a situation you will want to get out of quickly because you will soon be caught in the middle. Be the better person find out then confront, then walk away quietly and regain some peace. No one should live this way.

In addtion chances are these your husband is probably addicted to the

chase and this is something that will not go away, he is emotionally unavailable, no matter how you react mostly likely with questions

you will not like what you will hear or see.  It will cause you pain,

save your soul and find someone you can talk to to get you to understand that your feelings should be affirmed.