how would you know if a friend is a 'real friend'? i am asking all women out there.. how would we women know if women are being real women friends towards each other?
You just know like you know when Mr Right comes along. If you have to ask this queation because of a friendship you have now then you aren't really friends. There is a difference between friends and real friends. Most of of women are lucky if our whole lives we have 3 REAL friends the rest are just people we know.
you're right.. i can't say about mr. right coz i haven't met him yet either.. but real friends i have back home.. i just suddenly questioned that coz of cultural differences.. but what i really got confused and hurt about is how people say they are friends but they just 'steal' from you your other friendships.. and you just thought that maybe it's because i am a bad person or because of difference in culture.. hahaha.. i got myself all twisted as well..
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its really hard to trust anyone whom says their your friend i had a best friend for 20 years and i never lied to her and i find out shes been lying about things i said to her and twisting my words so it makes her look good infront of other people that hurt me so i dont trust her as much as i did
Live simply, love generously and care deeply.
I have one real friend. She listens to me when I'm upset about something, she tries to help me when I need something done and she shows genuine concern, not phony like the others. And she won't tell my secrets to her other friends.
Surrender. Surrender. But don't give yourself away . . . .
~ Cheap Trick ~
I have 1 great friend. She helped me move, helped me do construction on my house, and babysat my cats for 3 weeks when I was in the hospital. THAT is a FRIEND!!
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something inside u just tells u... if they trust u and u trust them, or if they r willing to drop everything they r doing to come to ur aid, then u really kno