I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend that ...

I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend that lives out of town. He is always initiating things toward me, sexually. We have made-out and stuff before but I can't help but go along with it. I know he has a girlfriend. I feel bad, cause he's like cheating. I feel like an accomplice in a crime. But I know what I want, and I want him bad. What the heck do I do? Stop? Go for it?


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
Oh noooooooooo.  That's not the way.  You are taking part in a "crime"... in fact you make him cheat on his girlfriend.  Would you like that some other girl did it to your boyfriend ?  Now, suppose you be his girlfriend, if he cheated with you why do you think he won't do it again to you ?.  Stop it right now....  if you really want him so badly better wait until he is availabe (and when it happends better discuss with him the whole issue of faithful..... If you don't do it he will, most probably, cheat on you the way he did with you to his present girlfriend).
Best regards,


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Stop now. Is it him you want or the excitement of having something you know is not yours to begin with? Either way, you should stop what you're doing and rethink your game plan.


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hi!

i just recently am going through the same situation that you are. I have no idea what to do either! Here is what I can tell you though... I want him so bad. And part of me wants to get him to cheat on her with me again. And I know that I can do that because I am ten times prettier then her. Self centered but it is true. But another part of me knows that he is still with her and that if he really and truly wanted me as more then a hook up then he would choose me over her. Its that simple. Now, I can tell you that I am not going to stop hanging out with him and flirting because I am not. But I think we both need to realize that it is not a good thing to be doing because it is bad for us. We both want something that we have had but will never have completely. It is not fair to be doing this because we get nothing in the long run. Hopefully we can make the right decision.


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Stay away from that guy.  He's bad news and you don't want to be labeled as something negative for being associated with him and his cheating.


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Okay, think of this calmly. If he has made out with you willingliy, that means he is maybe tired of his girlfriend and maybe he likes you. If you really like him then you should make known your feelings for him and if he says he likes you back, then good. For all you know, maybe his girlfriend is doing the same thing. I'll just leave you with 3 words


"Love is SELFISH"
Do what you think is right.

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