I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend that ...

Hi,
Oh noooooooooo.  That's not the way.  You are taking part in a "crime"... in fact you make him cheat on his girlfriend.  Would you like that some other girl did it to your boyfriend ?  Now, suppose you be his girlfriend, if he cheated with you why do you think he won't do it again to you ?.  Stop it right now....  if you really want him so badly better wait until he is availabe (and when it happends better discuss with him the whole issue of faithful..... If you don't do it he will, most probably, cheat on you the way he did with you to his present girlfriend).
Best regards,

Stop now. Is it him you want or the excitement of having something you know is not yours to begin with? Either way, you should stop what you're doing and rethink your game plan.

hi!

i just recently am going through the same situation that you are. I have no idea what to do either! Here is what I can tell you though... I want him so bad. And part of me wants to get him to cheat on her with me again. And I know that I can do that because I am ten times prettier then her. Self centered but it is true. But another part of me knows that he is still with her and that if he really and truly wanted me as more then a hook up then he would choose me over her. Its that simple. Now, I can tell you that I am not going to stop hanging out with him and flirting because I am not. But I think we both need to realize that it is not a good thing to be doing because it is bad for us. We both want something that we have had but will never have completely. It is not fair to be doing this because we get nothing in the long run. Hopefully we can make the right decision.

Stay away from that guy.  He's bad news and you don't want to be labeled as something negative for being associated with him and his cheating.

Okay, think of this calmly. If he has made out with you willingliy, that means he is maybe tired of his girlfriend and maybe he likes you. If you really like him then you should make known your feelings for him and if he says he likes you back, then good. For all you know, maybe his girlfriend is doing the same thing. I'll just leave you with 3 words

okay, I am currently going through the same situation. the guy I like has a gf but she's not treating him right. yes, I am hoping that he will dump her for me. i know its not right and its a little bit mean, but i can't help myself. i consider the girl's feelings too, but I can see that she's not into him anymore. the guy I like told me that he's in love with me, and he even spends time with me more than his own gf. i am confused, thinking that I might only be a rebound or just a 'tool' to make him feel better everytime the relationship doesnt work out. i mean, i am ready to give him a chance only if he agrees on breaking up with her. the other day, his gf asked him to break up with her, and he was so upset that he didnt want to. so that made me think that he's really in love with her. yes, i was devastated.. but the next day he told me that he really loves me but how can someone love two ppl at the same time? there must be one who's loved more than the other. and i guess that's her. not me. i know its sad, and I don't really know what to do. but for now, i am just gonna wait for another 2 months or so. if he's still with her, then I think I should just move on. but if he dumps her, then I guess I should carry on with what I am doing.

I don't know if i am doing the right thing but you gotta take a risk in love. So listen to your heart, do you really LIKE this guy that you wanna take the risk of not getting him? you might end up getting hurt in the end cos he might stick with his gf, but it can be the other way around also. so think about it. 

im in the same thing so i dont know but i would go for it cause its your only chance while that bitch is out of town so go for it i say

from kara

From what you have written, I know you want him, but do you want someone who is cheating on you?  To be perfectly honest, I would walk away from this guy.