Me and my gf have been dating for 3-4 months know ...

Me and my gf have been dating for 3-4 months know and i always have this feeling that i can't trust her. I called her around 8 and she hasnt picked up, its 12am now and i want to know, do you show anger when you call? Or dont show that your angry?

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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


You didn't mention why don't you trust her (any specific reasons ?).  Good relations are based on four pillares: Trust + Openess + Communicatins + Respect.  You date your girlfriend for 3-4 months and you didn't manage to build trust + openess + proper communications.... If you don't attend to it your relations will never take off from the ground..... Prepare a nice setting (you know what she likes and what I mean) tell her what you feel about her (it's about time !), and that you want your relation to flourish, than tell her exactly what bothers you..... and don't forget to emphasize that you expect that you (both) work out a solution.  Remember it's a discussion, let her make her points, listen to what she says (active listening !), don't disturb, get the deep meaning.... If you are (both) smart you'll bring your relations to a much better palces / levels.
Best regards,

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Love knows no bounds.

I think you need to talk to your girlfriend about your concerns. If you're not open and honest with her, your relationship will be based on lies. And that's not the type of relationship anyone would want.


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Trust is a crucial factor in any relationship. There might be somethings bothering you right now which in the near future would seem so unimportant. Sometimes it takes time to build such trust in your partner, you should figure out with yourself if there is really any true base to your feelings. Getting mad without any real reason won't do any good , relax and think it over. Then talk to her like advised.


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Did you have plans with her?  Does she tell you every time she goes out?  You've only been dating 4 months, she could've gone out with her friends, didn't intend to stay out but was having a great time.  Don't have her push her friends aside.


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Dont call her at all

, she'll call you and ask you if your'e angry cause she never answered your call.

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Different relationships built in different ways, for some