Compassion. A great sense of humor. A Genuine personality. Intellect. And, yeah, I'll admit it, we're shallow. Good looks will get you really far at first, but if you CAN'T support those looks with the intelligence, personality, etc, then you're out. We can spot a fake a mile away. If we detect any hint of "skeezeball" from you, we don't trust you as far as we can throw you.