Theres this guy i like and he goes to my school ...

Theres this guy i like and he goes to my school, me and him flirt all the time and we call each other and hang out out of school we also flirt "physically" not sex though. We both have deep feelings about one another but the reason why were not going out is because his girlfriend, i told him i didnt want to get hooked to him but he did anyway, what do i do?

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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
Oh noooooooooooo.  If he has a girlfriend why is he flirting with you too ?  Don't let it be !.  If you have just a little bit of self respect you won't allow it..... sure not encourage it....  If he did it to his present girlfriend he will do it to you too (if you be his girlfriend).  Better tell him, simple and clear: "I don't want to have any business with you untill you are a 100% free person (no commitment to any girlfriend what so ever)". You can give him a hint that if that happends than you'll be glad to be his girlfriend. 
Best regards,


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Fool me once,

shame on you!!

Fool me twice,shame on me!

ok girl,he has  a girlfriend!!!what do you want with a guy who had a girlfriend?would you like it if you had a boyfriend and he flirted with another girl?

and let's say that he becomes your boyfriend,don't you think that he'll do the same to you too?!

find a guy who is trustworthy!


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Easy like sunday morning!

If this guy has a girlfriend you should not want to be involved with him. If he leaves her for you, he will also leave you for someone else. Maybe you should back off and give him sometime to sort things out and put his life into perspective. Do not allow him to make you his excuse for not wanting to do the right thing with the one he is currently with. Also observe him more closely but from a distance to make sure this is not a pattern with him. You have to protect yourself.


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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Hi,

     I totally agree with OronD, Angelkiss and Flossielove, I gave them 2 thumbs up.  I don't think it is right for you to get involved with this person while he still has the other girlfriend, he is a man who is not trustworthy.  A decent person would clear himself before starting a new relationship.  I think you knew it is wrong because you were hesitant to get involved with him at this point.  You just want to confirm with other people to see if you are right or wrong.  I think that you were smart to ask about the opinions of the Yedda members.  I know that Yedda people are very decent people who try to do what is right and moral.  Actually I am hooked to this website because I see other people's lives being presented here and to get the opinions and input of these very concerned, helpful and caring members.

     I HOPE YOU WILL LISTEN TO THEIR ADVICE.  TAKE CARE.


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You stop all relationship. Accept that he is in a relationship. Enjoy the fact that you had a great time together and shared some intense feelings and move on.


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Talk is always never cheap