He says he likes me but he isn't ready for a ...

Hi,

Real friends don't have sex. People who have strong moral base don't have sex before marriage. You have control over your moral base and you are the one who has to answer for any deviations. Play along is childish. This is a time you must answer your own question.

hi cal45, do you really like him? if his divorce is true, yes you will have to give him some time. but be mindful and use protection always until you are certain. talk to him in another 2 months and firmly ask him where the relationship with you is going then. it should be more than enough time for him to know what he wants. if the answer is no, be strong. move on.

Muad'Dib, Kal

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hmmm,he sounds like a player to me!he is using you,for his own enjoyment!he is selfish,and thinks only about himself!he just wants sex,but no commitment.....that would put up a red flag for me!

Do you think that YOU deserve this treatment?If he's not ready for a relationship,then he's not ready for sex either!!

Unfortunately, I think this guy is just looking for some action. I would suggest that if you really like him, try to keep a friendship (with no sex) going with him. If he is really interested in you, he will hang around but if it's just sex he's looking for, he'll go looking for someone else, which in turn will show you that he was not really the guy for you.

Don't underestimate what you deserve. No woman deserves to be treated like an object. Playing along is not only childish but will also end up crushing your heart.

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He's given yu an honest answer...divorced thus no more commitment...wants sex.... do you want the sex? if so, then play along... otherwise he's just using you for sex and you need to jump ship!!!

Ever hear the phrase "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"  If you're having sex with him what possible reason could he have for moving to the next level of the relationship.  Most people don't have sex with their friends.  I've had sex with a few of my female friends when neither of us had been dating anyone for a while, but your situation is different.  If he wants in your pants he needs to date you, if he wants to be just friends keep your zipper up (or your skirt down, whatever.)