I don't want to turn this into a scam topic but, here it is in a nut shell!  Maybe this well save some one's bank account.  If you think you have found the love of your life half way around the world and yes she loves you and has stopped chatting with all the other men bal bal

Have a friend write here a letter, saying he wants to get to know here or something, or just add a new screen name but be careful here because if she is smart she will use your "header" and find out the mail came from the same address and computer.