I have a real crush on this girl.. but now she is telling me she does not like It if I would perform oral on her below... How can I change that ? She probably thinks its dirty. Help its a real big turn off!
Instead of satisfying your own selfish sexual gratification why not show her some consideration and respect her wishes. By doing that your crush might be returned and even develop into a more meaningful relationship if that is really what you and she want.
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Ha all wrong I found out she was just a slut and fucking other people, cruel but the hard truth!! So for people out there...now you know. Telling me she wanted me to be the last the one she loved blablabla whatever. If someone really loves you remember! good lesson they would even do hardcore SM in a figure of speech...ah whatever
Im abit confused by your question but i will try my best to answer it anyway in hope i can be off some help. A crush? Is that all it is? Are you actually in a relationship with this girl because that might be the reason she doesn't want you too perform oral sex on her 'below'. The second thing is why would you want to change that... why cant you just respect the girl and her sexual needs and desires instead of being selfish with your own. If you really want to try oral sex on a girl maybe try and find another girl or ease the girl you like into the idea and talk it through, but i really think you are being rather selfish about the whole thing. And i hope you didn't tell her its a big turn off just respect her as a human being not everyone has the same sexual needs and desires and she just might not want that. Also if you relate it to yourself and think of a sexual act you would not desire or want then wouldn't you want her to respect that? Instead of trying to change it. I hope i was some help.
For me to engage in oral sex with a woman is a nice way to say, "I Love You". But then not all women see oral sex as their cup of tea, and their rights need to be respected in or out of the bedroom.
Maybe she considers the act a turn-off, if you try change her mind you will be changing her, do you like her the way she is or not? A crush is a crush for a reason it's an idea or fantasy not reality.
has it ocurred to you that maybe shes afraid that she smells.When I was younger I thought that if my area had any scent at all that it was dirty.Now I know that there is a natural scent that is healthy.As long as it doesnt smell foul.Be patient just tell her thats what you like and eventually is she loves you shell want to make you happy.