I have a real crush on this girl.. but now she is ...

I have a real crush on this girl.. but now she is telling me she does not like It if I would perform oral on her below... How can I change that ? She probably thinks its dirty.  Help its a real big turn off!


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brosen
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Instead of satisfying your own selfish sexual gratification why not show her some consideration and respect her wishes. By doing that your crush might be returned and even develop into a more meaningful relationship if that is really what you and she want.
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relationshipGuru
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A healthy relationship starts with trust and honesty and a big warm genuine smile.
 

If I understand you correctly, you've already performed oral sex with your girlfriend. Is it possible that she didn't enjoy it? I pasted a link below that gives tips to give a woman a very pleasurable experience.  

http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/femaleorgasm/category/oral-sex/
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Alexandra
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possible explanation which I have come across before in discussion with some women is that enjoying oral sex requires a certain level of comfort and confidence with your partner and yourself. Often insecurities get in the way when one puts themself in such a vulnerable position. Perhaps if you just give her time and respect her wishes for now she will eventually reach that level of comfort with you.
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Like ALexandra and the rest mentioned either she had a bad experience or either she is not feeling comfortable. Never pressure a woman to enable you to commit oral sex. Sex and it's variety of ways of performance should never be committed when there isn't 100% consent between the partners.

Relax your needs and make sure she is relaxed as well , let her trust you with her body. Let time do it's job and in no time you will find yourself between her legs. 
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beats me.  but i would think it would occur in due time.
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