Here is the story; I Started dating my current girlfriend about 8 months ago. It started off pretty fun and causual, but about 3 months in it changed to a more serious step after a long road trip together. After which things started progressing very rapidly and seriously. I even introduced here to my two little girls about 6 months in. A little more than a month ago things have started to change.
The symptoms; There has been several changes in particularly the communication aspect. First, we live pretty far apart and its often hard to see each other during the week, and wasn't much of a problem at first. But now she says its to hard to come over and than get back to work. At first it started with little things like not being able to talk on the phone and only txts. Than it turned in to at times no communication and than a random txts with no response. Her explanations varied. Now it is a big problem, sometimes to the point of getting one random txt, but with no response to my return txt or phone calls. Often with the excuse she didn't get mine. Than there has been the little arguments, some of which she has even accused me of being dishonest and hinted at the possibility of me with entertaining someone else, almost hinting that I may cheat on her. We have never argued before the last few weeks.
I also need to interject that another factor in our relationship that has really been bugging me is that I have involved her in most everything of my life, family friends events. To the point that the only reason she isn't apart of any event I am in, is that she has other plans. On the flip-side, however, I don't know any of her family. Have only meet two of her friends only recently. So have not been really apart of anything in her life but what we do together, most of which has to do with me and my life. I also must add this is the first time in almost five years I have included someone I that I was dating with my friends and Family, out of protections reasons for them. So I have been very understanding about slowly introducing me to here world.
All of this leading up to the point of me having so much doubts that I had to say something. I know, unlike typical male stereotyping, I expressed my feelings. Which ended with her trying to assure me that my fears are un warranted, and her telling me how much she loves me. All good right?
Well not so quick. Even though I have expressed my feelings I feel like things continue to be the same. Weird periods of not being able to talk for the day or days. I left for a family camping trip that she wasn't able to attend because of her work, which is fine, except not one phone call the hole time we were gone. Not even over the weekend. Now that we are back she seems to be busy most nights I have asked her to do stuff. Its totally sketchy to. Like," oh I busy that night", with no real explanation of who or what. Yet, when I make plans on one of the nights she is busy I get the "With who?" "Where ya going?" "What are you doing?" "For how long?" and "Why wasn't I invited?" This is so frustrating.
I know, long story. The last thing I have to say is what’s the most confusing is when we are together. Except for the two and only disagreements we have had, everything is almost perfect. She is great in every way. But we seem to be together less and less now.
So am I being overly paranoid, or does this sound like she is onto someone else?
